“I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now. I am 21 and he is 20. We have been leaving together for about a year now. At the start of our relationship we fooled around. We haven’t had sex though. I have been on birth control for 3 years now. But the last 2 years we haven’t done anything at all only kiss and cuddle. we get along great and don’t fight. I sometimes ask him why his never in the mood and he says he has no clue why. We have talked about him going to see a doc. but i think he is to embarrassed to go see one or having to explain to his dad why he has to go. Do you know what could be the reasoning behind his low sex drive? OR how he could fix it. He is to young to have these problems.”
A: We recommend him calling Family Planning and scheduling an appointment. Our services are confidential so permission from a parent is not needed.